Gracie waitin' for me to wake up
I miss the hell out of that ornery old man and it's still hard to believe he's actually gone - but then again - for the ugly way he was disrespected up to, during and after his death... I hope he's resting. That man, if ever there was one, deserved to rest.
But I don't think he is. Yet.
That's all I have to say today.
4 comments:
NOT weird to save his phone messages. Or if it is, we're the same kind of weird. You know I lost someone important to me a few years ago because I've talked about it a little, and my understanding of grieving after a loss. For what it's worth - he died 5/9/07. And I still have his last few messages.
I don't think it's weird that you (or anyone) would keep messages from a lost loved one. I think it would be comforting to be able to hear their voice.
I have an old cassette tape of my Dad talking to my boys. Hard to find a cassette player anymore, so I keep an old one around.
My Dad died 19 years ago.
Keep on, however you need to. It's no one else's business.
Just today I was sooooo wishing I still had any of my Mom's voice mails for anything. There isn't much I wouldn't do to hear her again. 2 1/2 years and I still cry at least once a day. So no, its no weird. Glad that you have them. Hope they make you feel a bit better.
Be well.
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